This Months Fetish Diary in Detail

AUGUST 2026

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Sunday 2nd August: SHAMED (2pm – 3am)
SHAMED is the ultimate filthy sexy event experience. whether you love degradation and Humiliation or just voyeuristic dirty sex.


Monday 3rd August, Flirts: Birmingham D/S Munch (7pm – Midnight)
We want to help connect the D/s community in the West Midlands and beyond. We're hoping to create a space to share experiences, learn from each other, and socialise with like-minded kinksters.


Friday 7th August, Flirts: Naked & Naughty (8pm – 2am)
Dress code at venue, Naked, or as near naked as you feel comfortable with.


Sunday 9th August, New Guard, Classic Crew (2pm - 8pm)
Whether you're a regular member or visiting us for the first time, this is the perfect opportunity to come along, enjoy the club, and meet the team. Whether you simply want to relax with a drink, socialise with like-minded people, or enjoy using our play areas and dungeons throughout the event; the day is yours to enjoy in a safe, respectful, and welcoming environment. We'll also be on hand to:
• Answer any questions about the club and our plans.
• Hear your ideas and suggestions for improvements.
• Discuss new events and themes you'd like to see.
• Introduce you to some of the hosts behind our popular fetish events and talk about what's coming up.

Our aim is to build on the fantastic work of Paul and Flirt, giving you more of what our members want, so your feedback is genuinely important to us. Whether you have a great idea, a suggestion for improvements, or simply want to say hello, we'd love to see you.


Monday 10th August, Flirts: Sweet & Naughty (1pm – 5.30pm)
Indulge your sweet tooth… and your wicked side! Join us for Sweet & Naughty, a decadent daytime play munch and optional spa experience.


Friday 14th August, Flirts: Bi Night (8pm - 3am)
A relaxed, welcoming space to explore bisexuality freely. Guest list via Fabswingers Barbitch223 / Telegram @barbitch2025.


Sunday 16th August: Blood, Sweat & Tears (2pm – 8pm)
One event, three energies: needles, impact, and play—move freely between spaces.  


Friday 21st August, Flirts: 7 Deadly Sins: Lust!!! – (8pm – 2am)
This is turning into one of our most busy and fun fetish events for some time!
The gates have re-opened. Lilith and Lucifer have been itching to invite their favourite sinners to a party, and that includes you! What do you own that makes others gawk? Killer boots? A stunning whip that leaves the best marks? Latex that everyone lusts after. Anonymous votes will be cast and must be kept hush. The person who causes the most envy amongst the crowd will win! Join us for a series of events, where there will be games, competitions, performances and demos, to delight and tantalise! Discount tickets and tasty treats are just a few of the prizes available to win!


Saturday 22nd August, Flirts: Splash! (8pm – 11.30pm)
If pee is your thing, then urine for a real treat, Splash! is a dedicated Watersports event, held inside Flirts at Xtasia.


Sunday 23rd August: Imminent Impact (Xtasia Chill Lounge) (2pm - 8pm)
A safe, welcoming space for exploring Spanking kinks. Open to newcomers and experienced players alike, grounded in empathy, respect, and inclusivity for all identities.


Sunday 23rd August: Midland Peer Rope Workshop (Xtasia Main Floor) (2pm - 8pm)
Beginner-friendly and all levels welcome, with social/free tying, a beginner lesson, and an intermediate workshop. Plenty of space for free tying, plus drinks and snacks available.


Friday 28th August, Flirts: Paint and Play - Life Drawing (8.30pm - 1am)
Get creative at Paint and Play, where you can decorate your own BDSM paddles, craft fun projects, and explore a body painting playground with UV paints and glow-in-the-dark tattoos. Open to all skill levels, it’s a hands-on evening of art, mischief, and playful expression.


Sunday 30th August: Cirque Du Chaos (2pm – 8pm)
Welcome to Cirque - Part Circus, All Party! Cirque is a large, vibrant party - you're encouraged to dress up, strut your stuff and have some wonderfully kinky fun! We provide a party space that welcomes socialites, show-offs, voyeurs, kinksters, filthy beasts and all those in between. The perfect party to watch, socialise and play!


Sunday 30th August: Freak Unleashed (8pm - 3am)
The Freakers Ball is back... but this time it's UNLEASHED! Prepare for a night where the weird, the wild and the wonderfully outrageous take over Xtasia. Whether you're a gothic icon, twisted circus performer, vampire, demon, latex lover or something that defies description, this is your chance to Unleash Your Freak! Why not make a day of it?Join us for the incredible Cirque du Chaos from 2pm–8pm, then stay on as the venue transforms into FREAK UNLEASHED 8pm-3am for an unforgettable night of music, drinks and alternative mayhem! Dual Event Ticket (Cirque du Chaos + FREAK UNLEASHED): £30 Or, if you're just joining us for the evening... FREAK UNLEASHED only: £15.