This Month's Swingers Diary

AUGUST  2026
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Tuesday 4th August, Flirts: The Great Headspace (8pm – Midnight)
At our monthly social let's use all if these to help and support each other with our mental health. Drop in, sit quietly, or have a chat. Our space is open for you to do as you need for yourself.


Friday 7th August: Pre-Phase [Alt Rock Night #1] (8pm – 3am)
By popular request, we're doing something a little different... For one month only, Alt Rock Night will be running as a back-to-back weekend event, giving single men the opportunity to attend this epic night on a Friday before our usual event.This is a one-off opportunity, so don't miss your chance to experience one of Xtasia's most popular themed nights.


Saturday 8th August: It Was Not A Phase [Alt Rock Night #2] (8pm – 3am)
Bringing you Emo metal and pop punk music with a sexy twist on the night what could be better.


Tuesday 11th August, Flirts: FFM - Friends, Fun & More Social (8pm - Midnight)
Socialising in Flirts bar, enjoy a fun quiz as you get to know others from the swing community, and then play is available to genuine swing members in the cinema and playroom area downstairs.


Friday 14th August, Flirts: Milf Mayhem (10am – 2pm)
Come see what the fuss is about, and don’t forget our famous buffet!


Friday 14th August, Flirts: Bi Night (8pm - 3am)
A relaxed, welcoming space to explore bisexuality freely. Guest list via Fabswingers Barbitch223 / Telegram @barbitch2025.


Friday 14th August, Flirts: BMFC – Black Man’s Fan Club (8pm – 3am)
Mixed singles and couples night with a BMFC focus. All welcome. Dress code: Smart casual.


Saturday 15th August: Dress to Excite (8pm – 3am)
We're handing the dress code over to you...
Feeling classy? Turn up suited and booted.
Feeling sassy? Slip into your favourite lingerie or your best boxers.
Fancy rocking a cocktail dress, kilt, leather, latex, a tux, a tutu, your lucky pants, or even your birthday suit? Go for it!
We've been informed that saying "frocks are just for the ladies" is terribly old-fashioned... so let's keep it simple, wear whatever makes you feel sexy!

Friday 21st August: Hot Wives (8pm – 3am)
A night specifically for those that enjoy the pleasures found within hot-wife as well as stag and vixen dynamics of this lifestyle, and of course those that appreciate the company of some of the hottest people on the scene.


Saturday 22nd August: Newcummers Unleashed (8pm – 3am)
A relaxed, non-pressured evening perfect for first-timers and newcomers to Xtasia, and of course regulars who love to meet newcomers. Also includes Sing and Swing Karaoke in the top chill lounge for the evening.


Wednesday 26th August, Flirts: Cherripie GangBang (12pm – 3pm)
CherriPie and team Gangbang, up to serious mischief in Flirts. Private Hire event, if you wish to attend, please contact Cherri via X on @Cherri99228581.


Friday 28th August: Wild Temptations (8pm - 3am)
Dive into a world where desire meets adventure, and every moment is a chance to explore the unexpected.


Saturday 29th August: 80's / 90's / Naughties night (8pm - 3am)
Chris and Zoe presents ‘80s ‘90s Naughties’, Exclusively for those on the Guest List… £10 off the club entry price if you arrive before 10pm, and five names from the list will win a £10 Bar Voucher each. What was your favorite decade, who was your favorite artist? Have you still got your NafNaf, Shellsuit or Rockports? How about the baggy jeans and Reebok Classics? Dayglo micro mini or something Juicy? We’ll be giving away a free club entry to any Friday or Saturday night event to the best dressed person on the night, either in theme or as your idol. As always, fancy dress is totally optional.